"No matter how full a reservoir of maxims one may possess, and no matter
how good one's sentiments may be, if one has not taken advantage of
every concrete opportunity to act, one's character may retain entirely
unaffected for the better. With mere good intentions, hell is
proverbially paved."
~William James~
I was talking to a friend the other day who is an office manager in another practice in town. When I asked her how things were going, she was clearly frustrated. Everything is running smoothly in the practice, the staff is nice, the patients are satisfied, everyone gets along, and she's about to go crazy. Well, of course my next questions was, "Why?", but I thought I knew the answer. It's all a balancing act, and it's a tower of stuff that feels like it's perched on a tea cup on top of her head. If she lets her shoulders relax for a minute it will all come tumbling down. ( I knew the answer because we office managers tend to take on all the responsibility in our practice. It happens gradually because we may have tried to delegate something and it didn't work out so we decide it's easier to do it ourself. The problem is that if it grows out of control, we soon find that we think we're the only ones that will do anything right and we build our own tower of stuff.)
She likes her staff and thinks they're all great people, but they don't think for themselves. She is constantly running interference and jumping in to rescue everyone. They don't accept accountability for anything out of the norm. If something comes up that is unusual in any way, they immediately run to her rather than trying to come up with a good response. On the other hand, when they have made decisions on their own, they haven't always been so great. She always ends up having to step in and rescue the situation. The doctor sees that everyone seems happy and they all get along, production is good, and that makes him feel satisfied with the way things are. He doesn't seem to understand why she's so stressed. At this point, not only can I see her stress, I can feel it, it's palpable. She said that when she tried to explain her frustration to him his reply was, "I think that they are all coming from a place of good intention." He doesn't understand why, with everything that's going well, she feels so on edge.
I do understand what she's worried about. Sooner or later, she's going to need to let her shoulders relax and all the stuff will come tumbling down. The problem is with the foundation, it's like an inverted pyramid, there's too much empty space on either side of the tip for it to be stable. Starting out with good intentions is fine, but good intentions have to be fortified by determination. That would build a solid base. Think about a hygienist who sells her patients lot's of high fluoride toothpaste, but forgets to charge for it over and over again. When she comes to you about it she says, "I always forget to charge for the toothpaste, I wish I could remember." Well, her intention is good, she wants her patients to have less decay, and she would like to remember to charge, but those good intentions are not solving the problem. The problem is she is giving away toothpaste and costing the practice money. Her intention is not solving the problem because she has not taken every opportunity available to act differently. She could make herself a little reminder note that she'd see before she lets the patient go, "Did you remember to charge for toothpaste?" Or she could make a rule for herself that she cannot let go of the box until she enters the fee into the ledger. It's not hard, it just takes determination. It's the same with any other performance issue in the practice, if the staff member is determined to improve, she will find a way. If she hopes to survive on good intentions, sooner or later it won't be enough.
Now, let's get back to my friend. How much of her problem is of her own making? Her good intention is to make the practice and team successful, I know that about her. You can even say she's determined to make it happen, even if she has to do it herself. Aha, maybe that's where her good intention has led her down the nicely paved path to hell? Maybe her intention needs a few building blocks along the way. If we return to the idea of a pyramid, a proper pyramid sits on a broad base that eventually reaches it's pinnacle. Maybe she needs to build her base a little more by holding her team accountable for what they do and helping them find ways to improve. She was slightly annoyed by that suggestion, after all, she is constantly trying to get them to do things the way she wants them done. Well, what if we try to bring them into the process of solution rather then just prescribing the reactions and actions we want to see? Maybe that's the reason they can't think for themselves, they've become accustomed to her having all the right answers. If she asks them what they think when it comes to finding solutions, they may feel more accountable, rather than just feeling that they are carrying out orders.
This is the way I see it. There are positives and negatives that come along with every staff member. If the negatives are outweighing the positives, and you've addressed it and nothing changes, the staff member won't work out. If you have a staff that are nice, treat your patients well, are caring and get along with each other, you're way ahead of the game already. That's the foundation you build on, that's your concrete. Now you decide if you are going to put in the determination to take that cement and build up to a pinnacle of success, or if you are going to let good intentions build a long and winding road straight to...well, you know where that's going to end up by now, don't you?
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