Can you imagine a day in a dental practice with no problems? It will never happen. There are too many different people, with all their unique personalities, trying to achieve their individual desires, dealing with their own perspectives, to get through a day without any problems. So accept it and deal with it.
There are ways to face the problems of the day without letting them cause friction or breakdown of attitudes. First, let's talk about how you approach others about your problem. Don't talk about how something doesn't work, give a suggestion for how to make it work well. For instance, don't say "I'm being taken advantage of because no one helps with set-up chores in the morning. I do them all or they won't get done". Instead, ask your office manager if you can discuss a chore sheet at the next staff meeting so that the chores are distributed among the staff.
If you are bothered by someone else's behavior, wait a little and see if the feeling goes away. If it doesn't, talk to them about it. The operative word here is them, not everyone else but them. They might not have intended to annoy you or bother anyone. Or they might not have realized they were being offensive. Try to have a calm and respectful talk about it.
If someone comes to you with a problem with your behavior, listen, don't make excuses or try to invalidate what they are saying. Ask them what you could do to improve the situation. Listen and really try to hear what they are saying, evaluate it's meaning and try to come up with a solution that works for both of you. Then put it behind you, don't dwell on it and turn it over and over looking for something to resent.
As far as patients go, try to understand where they are coming from. Make allowances, they are probably not too happy to be there to begin with. We never really know what is happening in another person's life so try to let small things go. That doesn't mean accepting abusive behavior, but in reality, how much is truly abusive and how much is simply rude. Try to remember that rude people only diminish themselves in the eyes of others.
Schedule interruptions, running behind and cancellations are common occurrences in dental practices. Put it in perspective. It will be rare that you actually work the exact schedule that you start the day with. Accept that as reality and you won't be surprised when it happens. Flow with the tide and make adjustments as needed. It is required if you want to excel.
Learn to be flexible. It is more reasonable to expect that things will change from day to day and to be able to respond appropriately. Realize that nothing and no one is perfect and you won't be disappointed. Understand that most days will include struggles and frustrations as well as satisfaction and smooth sailing.
Don't overdo things. Even good things carried to extremes can get annoying. Think of the person who always goes way, way over and above what is expected. Does that person leave room for anyone else to shine? How about the constant comedian? If you can never be serious, you can probably never be sincere either. Over-complimenting rings false, over-complaining is exhausting and too many questions make you seem to lack in confidence.
Accept responsibility for making decisions. Don't always try to get other's to make the tough calls so that you can't be blamed if something goes wrong. Don't look to place blame on others for mistakes, spend that energy coming up with solutions. Find ways to be more positive and to ways to work smarter. Take a look at this post byDavid Cheong . He has some good suggestions for all of us about developing positivite patterns.
Basically expect problems to happen and plan for them. Develop responses for common problems and keep the big picture in mind. Today will end and whatever happened will be done and over. Tomorrow will arrive with new opportunities to come up with great solutions to whatever the day presents to you. Start with a good attitude and you'll be more likely to end with one too.
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